Swingers Terminology

AC/DC 
Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity;
(Bi:Bisexual.) ADULT 
Euphemism for pornographic.

ALL CULTURES
Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities 
(see CULTURE)

ANAL
Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture.

ANIMAL TRAINING 
Sexual activity with animals usually dogs and women; Bestiality

ARTS 
Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures

B&D
Bondage and discipline 
(see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)

BESTIALITY
(see ANIMAL TRAINING)

BI 
Bisexual: Versatile 
(see AC/DC)

BIZARRE
Unusual sexual desires; Way out

BONDAGE 
A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."

CAN ENTERTAIN 
Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.

CAN TRAVEL 
Advertiser will travel to your home to swing.

CANING 
A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood

CHEATING 
Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and consent

CLEAN 
Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases

CLOSED DOOR 
(see CLOSED SWINGING)

CLOSED SWINGING 
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. The rooms are almost ways in the same house

CLOSET SWINGER 
A person who hides the he/she is a swinger.

COUPLE 
In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes; CPL

CPL 
Couple

CULTURE 
Euphemism for Fetish, Arts

CUNNILINGUS 
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth 
(see FRENCH CULTURE)

DILDO
An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus

DIRECTOR 
The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally call a Manager.

DISCIPLINE
A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings

DISCRETION 
Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.

DOCILE 
Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline 
(see SUBMISSIVE).

DOMESTIC TRAINING 
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.

DOMINANT 
The sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner

ENTERTAIN
(see CAN ENTERTAIN)

EXHIBITIONIST 
A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.

ENGLISH CULTURE:
Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning

F 
Female

FELLATIO 
Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.

FETISH
Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy

FLAGELLATION
Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking

FUN AND GAMES 
Euphemism for sexual activity

FRENCH CULTURE: 
Oral-genital sexual activity.

GREEK CULTURE: 
Anal-penile intercourse

GAY 
A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.

GENEROUS 
Refers to money for sex.

GROUP ROOM 
Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US 
(see MATROOM).

GROUP SEX 
Swinging; Social-sexual activity between three or more people.

GROWTH SWINGING 
Social-sexual environment that promotes emotional, personal and social growth

HARD CORE 
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.

HARD SWINGING 
(see HARD CORE)

HEAD 
Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head"

HEDONIST 
(Swinging) Euphemism for a swinger; Lives for pleasure.

HETEROSEXUAL 
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.

HOMOSEXUAL 
Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. 
(See GAY)

HORNY
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.

HUMANIST 
Person who believes in human values, potential, self-respect of the individual, personal freedom and human rights.

HUNG
Refers to a man with a large penis.

INDOOR SPORTS 
Swinging activities in general.

INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP 
Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads

LEATHER
A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.

LESBIAN 
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women 
(see GAY)

MARITAL AIDS 
Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.

MASOCHISM 
Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.

MASTER/SLAVE 
Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship 
(see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)

MATROOM
Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term
(see GROUP ROOM).

MEET FOR PLEASURE 
Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads.

MENAGE A' TROIS 
Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants. 
{see THREESOME, TRIAD)

MORESOMES 
More than three people in a swinging interaction.

NASCA 
The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become, to give a national voice to the growing swinging community and to promote the development of ethical swing clubs. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.

NEWCOMERS 
New people in swinging; First-timers

NONSMOKER 
Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.

OPEN DOOR 
(see OPEN SWINGING)

OPEN SWINGING 
A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room; (Western U S ) swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of the party.

ORAL-GENITAL 
(see CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)

ORGY 
Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex

PARTY 
Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.

PARTY CLOTHES 
Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.

PARTY HOUSE 
(Western US ) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.

PASSIVE 
Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging 
(see DISCIPLINE)

PHOTO 
Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.

PHOTOGRAPHY
Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.

P/P
Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).

PRO 
Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.

RECREATIONAL SWINGER
A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.

RESTRAINT
Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.

ROMAN 
Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc. 
(see CULTURE, ROMAN)

RUBBER 
Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.

ROMAN CULTURE:
Sexual orgies

SWEDISH CULTURE:
Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another

SAFE 
Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy.

S.A.S.E. 
Self-addressed stamped envelope.

SGL 
Single person.

S&M 
Sadism and Masochism 
(see SADISM, MASOCHISM).

SINGLE 
A swinger without a partner, single or married.

SOCIAL 
A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.

SOCIAL SWING CLUB 
A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.

SOFT SWINGING 
A social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required or assumed. Sometimes used to describe swapping up to, but not including intercourse. The term developed in Southern California in the early 1970's 
(see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).

S.T.D. or STD 
Sexually transmitted disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.

STR or STR8 
(see STRAIGHT)

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STRAIGHT 
Non-swinger; A Swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; A person who does not use drugs.

SWAPPING 
Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.

SWING MAGAZINE
A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.

SWINGING 
Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved.

SWINGING LIFESTYLE 
Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.

SWINGING MARRIAGE
Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.

SUBMISSIVE 
(see PASSIVE)

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THREESOME 
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a "menage a' trois" in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship.

TICKET 
A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.

TOYS 
Sexual aids 
(see MARITAL AIDS)

TRAVEL 
(see CAN TRAVEL)

TRIAD 
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.

TRIOLISM 
Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage 
(see TRIAD)

TUBAL LIGATION
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile; A method of contraception. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.

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UTOPIAN SWINGER 
A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals

Vasectomy
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to make a man infertile; A method of contraception.

VERSATILE 
Bisexual.
(see AC/DC)

VIBRATOR 
Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.

VOLUPTUOUS 
Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.

VOYEUR 
A person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others in sexual acts.

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